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Posted on: 02/15/2005
Question
The last time I had sex, he used his hand and I think hurt me. I can hardly go pee now, and I hurt a lot. I can only go pee a little bit at a time and it feels really bad when it starts and stops. My pee looks cloudy and when I wipe it's sort of pink on the paper. It's been like 2 days now, is it going to get better?
You should also know, I am very small, and he is very big. But I think maybe his finger nail hurt me where I pee, he was trying to put his hand inside me I think. I told him no and he stopped, but it was too late.
Answer
The soreness should go away within a couple of days, and if the pain with urinating does not go away you should be seen by a doctor.
The roughness would suggest that your partner was not concerned about your pleasure or comfort, but I am glad he stopped. Remember you do not have to be involved sexually if you do not want to be.