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Posted on: 09/07/2006
Question
i met an amazing guy im april we dated from april to june then he broke up wiht me because "we wouldnt get to see each other much over the summer" he came back from holidays we got back together..i was really happy.
the thing is that we broke up again. were still good friends but i miss him more than anything ever. i dont think he misses me as much..its breaking my heart and to make it all worse we went for a walk a while ago and we got close cuddling and kissing and stuff..and he says it was just a date and that he just dosent hvae commiment. it killing me slowly and i want to know whats going on.
Answer
What is going on is that he is not ready to make a commitment to you, although apparently he is still attracted to you and is willing to be your friend. If he is really a good friend as you say, he might be willing to talk with you and try to help you understand what his feelings are about the relationship. If he really just wants a friendship (which is what it sounds like), then it is time for you to let go and move on to find someone who misses you too.