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Posted on: 01/08/2008
Question
hi ok so for new year i went to this party and well i got drunk and i ended up making out with this guy who was sober... i didnt remember doing it... but alot of people at the party did... so like the a.m. after new years eve he texted me which i dont have a clue how he got my # but anyway he wont leave me alone... and im not at all interested in him... i was drunk and made out and he doesnt realize it i guess... but my question is how can i get him to leave me alone or how can i tell him nicely im SOOOO NOT interested in him.... thanx
Answer
The only thing to do is be direct and tell him that you are not interested. You can say something nice, like he is kind, or you are flattered, but be direct and do not encourage his feelings. If he persists, talk to a counselor or the police.
You did not ask, but my advice is that you address the issue you seem to have with alcohol. You put yourself at risk by drinking enough to do something you would not have done sober, which is a warning!