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Posted on:02/12/2008
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I'm only 15, and my bf and I are pretty close. We have never done anything oral, or more than that, just hand jobs. The thing is, I think he wants to get more serious, but he says some weird things like "I hate a girl with a bush" and "I dont like a girl with a lot of lips...I dont like when it looks like a high school play curtain." When he says that it makes me really self concious because I don't wanna go farther with him if he's not going to like how I look down there. I try to shave but sometimes I accidentally cut it. I also try to keep it clean, but periods and discharge happen. Advice please?
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Your instincts are correct and my vote is that this boy treats women as objects, and no one needs to be talked about that way. My vote is you find a boyfriend who actually loves you and sees you, your hair, and your body, as all perfect!
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Answered By:
Nancy Brown
, Ed.S, M.A., Ph.D.
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