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Posted on: 07/13/2009
Question
So, this guy I hardly know wants to take my virginity. I think I am ready for sex, but I don't know if I should have sex with him, because after I do, he's going to go back to a different state. Should I? Won't it make my second time better knowing what I am doing?
Answer
Please think about your choice - you say you hardly know this person, who is obviously just into taking your virginity - and no matter what he has said - having your first experience with someone who does not love you, may give you a disease or an unwanted pregnancy - will in no way make your second experience better.
You asked - please do not do this! Send this boy packing!