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Posted on: 03/24/2010
Question
I'm 17 years old and, I've been going out with my boyfriend for three years. The other night, he proposed. I said yes, but now thinking back am I too young?
Answer
You asked, so I get to give you a personal opinion, which is yes, you are too young! At 17, you are not done with your education. You need to get an education, build a career and be able to be independent before you get married and have babies, or you will be dependent and unskilled. How about considering a five-year engagement while you finish college? Good luck!