Dating Violence Cycle

What exactly is the dating violence cycle? It includes:

• Tension, such as criticism, yelling, swearing, angry gestures, coercion or threats


• Violence, such as physical and sexual attacks or threats


• Seduction, such as apologies, promises to change, or gifts

Jealousy and possessiveness are two of the most common warning signs of dating abuse. Abusers use them to control the other person's behavior.

The elements listed below can keep the cycle in motion.

• Love for the abuser: believing that the relationship is not entirely bad


• Hope: thinking things will change or it's just a phase


• Fear: worrying that threats will become a reality, resulting in fear of ending the relationship

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